Holocaust Survivors and Their Second Generation Children
Sunday, 07.01.2007, 02:59pm (GMT)
In my book, "Silent Battlefields: A Novel," I write about Holocaust
survivors and their adult children. In addition, there is a character
in the book that had been a Hitler Youth and German soldier, as well as
his young adult Child. Although this piece stresses Jewish people, the
vast majority of the Holocaust victims, inclusive of those taken to
concentration and death camps were political prisoners, criminals,
developmentally disabled persons, gays, and so called "gypsies."
Regarding Holocaust survivors, I would like to introduce a
controversial subject that is debated amongst psychotherapists, in
particular amongst psychiatrists, psychologists, and clinical social
workers. There are those, cutting across all three disciplines, holding
the view that holocaust survivors who have demonstrated psychopathology
subsequent to liberation are all people who have had mental disorders
prior to internment that predisposed them to the psychic problems they
later experienced. Other professionals maintain that such is not
necessarily the case and that the trauma of concentration camp life
provides a sufficient basis for the symptoms displayed by the
survivors. It is my position that the latter assertion is correct.
Further, I think that the former view constitutes an unwarranted
assumption and even a presumptuous one. It would be difficult to
advance hard evidence to support it, since there is no way in
retrospect to conduct a scientific experiment verifying it.
Consequently, the conclusion rests upon mere speculation. The atrocious
conditions and inhumane living in concentration camps and the
atrocities committed within them, are, in my opinion, sufficient to
produce psychological disorders in even the most psychologically
healthy individuals.
Many Jews who survived the Holocaust were often placed in untenable,
even unbearable, positions in which they were faced with choices of
survival by betraying their own families or fellow compatriots. Some
Jews in the role of a Kapos (a person having supervisory control over a
group of Jews in the concentration camps) administered harsh, even
cruel, behavior to others, for which they were rewarded camp amenities
not available to others. One should not sit in judgment of such people
decades later. Unless we were to find ourselves in the same existential
situation, we cannot know how we would have behaved; we can only know
how we would have liked to behave. Many such survivors paid a heavy
price of guilt throughout the remainder of their lives, not simply for
surviving, but for the way they managed to survive.
Holocaust survivors often tended to exclusively be comfortable only
with others who had survived. Non-Jews were looked upon with suspicion
and not to be trusted. A tacit code of silence prevailed in the
families they formed so that the second-generation children were
protected from the atrocities their parents had been subjected to.
Another reason for the silence was to protect themselves from exposing
the utter humiliations that they had endured while in the camps. They
did not wish their children to know of this.
It was not uncommon for survivors to emerge from the camps as
hypochondriacal. Their symptoms were converted into psychosomatic
disorders. As a result, visits to the doctor for physical treatment
frequently occurred for problems that were psychic in origin. They can
be plagued by tenacious memories throughout their lives and visited by
nightmares like unwelcome guests that long overstay their time.
Parents of Holocaust survivors commonly proved to be overly protective
of their children, which led to the restraining of the children's range
of allowable behaviors, much to his or her frustration. Second
generation children growing up were often protective of their parents,
in turn. Sometimes they were made to feel guilty for raising their own
normal developmental concerns. Survivor parents when hearing from their
children about the problems they were encountering would respond by
pointing out that such issues were nothing compared to what their
parents had gone through during the Holocaust. Hence, the code of
silence would eventually become bilateral. Many second generation
children, painfully aware of the past suffering their parents had been
forced to live through, internalized their parents comparisons of the
two sets of problems, leading the children to feel ashamed of bringing
up their own concerns or to remain silent so as to protect their
parents from having to listen to such "trivial" matters. The families
were often symbiotic in nature, making it difficult for the children to
separate and individuate as happens as a part of normal adolescent
development in the thrust toward the approach of early adulthood.
Second-generation children, through transmission of their parents'
earlier trauma in the concentration camps, not uncommonly resulted in
their own distrust of the outside world and made close relationships
with peers difficult to come by. It is not unlike the more recent
phenomenon in which persons with AIDS no longer feel connected to the
disease free community and seek out only others who are experiencing
the same physical and psychological experiences they are experiencing.
Nothing I have written here should be misconstrued as criticism of
Holocaust survivors. They were compelled to live, if, indeed, they
could manage to do so, in an evil environment of daily horrors that no
human being should ever have to endure. As for their children, they
were caught in a web of trauma transmission, by virtue of their
second-generation status, that was inescapable. Further, each survivor,
child, and family had their own individual identity, so that not
everything said here can be applied as a generalization across the
board.
Most importantly of all, many survivors and their families, despite
their lingering psychic injuries went on to lead lives of hope,
renewal, and success. One has only to witness the life of Elie Wiesel,
a Holocaust survivor who went on to provide the world with moral
leadership and has been awarded the Nobel Peace Prize.
Sadly, genocide is not an evil from mid-Twentieth Century only. It
continues to persist, involving other ethnic, racial, and religious
groups. The global reawakening of anti-Semitism is itself a threat.
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