Protect Your Children From Online Predators And Learn 5 Tips
Sunday, 07.01.2007, 12:49pm (GMT)
Are online sexual predators talking to your child? The statistics are
alarming. You do not need to panic if you learn 5 easy ways to help
protect your child from pedophiles.
Every family should be concerned about online sexual predators as these predators are increasing in numbers on the Internet.
Statistics indicate that one out of every five children, at the very
least, will be exposed to an online predator or some sort of offensive
material.
Most parents are likely already aware of online sexual predators. It
seems that every week, another young person has become another victim
while innocently being online. It is also a known fact that children,
specifically adolescents, are at a very high risk of being preyed upon
online.
The NBC Dateline program uncovered many Internet sexual predators and
arrested them one by one. This is obviously a serious concern for all
parents. Online predators do not fit any certain mold, if you will.
This program was unbelievable as it revealed many professional men
being arrested after inappropriately communicating online with someone
they thought was a child. They came from all walks of life. Some of the
men that were arrested would surprise you. Some were in the military
and some men were engineers. There was also a doctor and a rabbi that
were also arrested.
All of these men showed up at a "staged" setting where the young girl
was waiting at her house, just waiting for the predator to show up,
after engaging in an online chat room conversation.
While there have been a couple of hundred potential predators that were
arrested in this sting operation, there are still many more predators
that go undetected and never get caught. This has to stop and it is
such a scary thought to even think about. We all have to try and do
more to protect our kids.
Many adolescents find themselves in a very dangerous situation when
they innocently were online chatting with what they thought was another
adolescent.
It seems all too common these days when another child has been
victimized by a sexual predator. Worse yet, some are kidnapped and
murdered, following online activity that a child so innocently became
involved with.
Kids may feel that they can trust others on the Internet and may not realize any of the many dangers that predators create.
We as parents need to take extra measures to help protect our kids.
Many parents still wonder what else they can do and the question still
exists. What can we as parents do to better protect our children from
these online sexual offenders?
Parents understand all of these dangers of online predators and certainly try to do their part at monitoring online activity.
Most parents admittedly feel that their efforts probably are not enough
to completely protect their children and wonder what else they can do
to get that extra "piece of mind" we all want to have. The statistics
just seem to get worse, however.
Some parents may not be aware of the simple tips that they can use to
help protect their children from these sexual predators. While you
probably don't want to place your child in a paper bag, you certainly
do not want to ban them from all of their social networking, such as
MySpace.
The bad thing about these social networking sites is that they are the
perfect target for online predators to congregate. In addition, sites
such as these provide a lot of personal information that is very
accessible to the wrong kind of people.
Things such as pictures and specific information about your child's
identity should not be visible as it can be very risky, to say the
least.
Fortunately, there are things that you can do as a parent to help protect your children when they are online.
Here are 5 tips to help protect your children from online predators.
1. Talk to your child about online predators. Teach your children
regarding the many possibly deadly dangers of online sexual predators.
Many kids are naive about online relationships and don't fully
understand the risks.
2. Seriously consider prohibiting your child from using chat rooms.
Predators love chat rooms! These predators may pose as a child
themselves to gain access to your child.
3. You should closely monitor their online activity if allowed to
participate in any of the chat rooms and place the computer in a room
that is common to everyone within the household. Never allow your child
to have his/her own computer in their own bedroom.
4. Pay close attention to your child's behavior. If something doesn't
seem quite right, ask MORE questions and always know exactly where they
are going when leaving the house.
5. Set computer guidelines for your child such as requiring permission
to download anything! Predators have a habit of sending sexually
explicit material.
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